June 08, 2002
Watch the world go by - one story at a time: Columnist Terry Marotta has published her second book
By FRANCEEN SHAUGHNESSY
The Patriot Ledger
She wont use a computer, saying that she cant even type, and her dented minivan acts as her office. She keeps a stack of legal pads in the van, just in case an idea pops into her mind. Some of the legal pads are clean, waiting to be filled, while others have discarded ideas.
Sometimes I read some stuff or I watch people and then I get an idea and I just write down a sentence. And then when that idea runs dry and it doesnt produce other sentences, then I throw that legal pad in the back seat, says Terry Marotta, 53, whose syndicated column, Home Front, appears every other week in the Weekend Family section of The Patriot Ledger.
Her column touches on subjects such as as home and family, daily observations and other life experiences.
The author of I Thought He Was a Speed Bump and her latest book, Vacationing In My Driveway, says writing helps her to sort out and hold on to her thoughts.
Its how I know what I think, says Marotta, a Winchester native. I cant seem to figure out what I think unless I have a pen in my hand. Its a good way to have a visit with yourself.
I write out of fear of it all slipping away, she adds. Writing stuff down makes you feel like you havent lost it utterly or at least you can go back and remember it and retrieve it.
Marotta likes writing in her mobile office.
She rolls down the windows and sticks out her feet to help get the inspirational juices flowing.
I write in my car because Im out in the world and not just in my own little study, she says. You have to be out in the world.
For Marotta, the car offers her protection to observe her surroundings as they naturally unfold.
People dont notice you while youre in your car, she says. You just blend right in. Its like youre one of the maple trees.
And sooner or later the whole world goes by, she says.
Relaxing in her car at a local park, Marotta becomes the observer.
The writer is supposed to be the observer unobserved, because when people can tell you are looking at them they become self-conscious, she says. Its like when you take their picture and they know youre doing it, the smile is always overly different.
Marotta stresses the importance of respecting the subjects of her observations.
The real criterion has to be writing with respect towards the person you are observing so when they see it they dont feel mocked.
I hope it doesnt seem like Im exploiting people by watching them, like Im using people in order to find fuel, because I dont feel that way, she says. I think that if I didnt go out and have those conversations with strangers every day, I would feel much the poorer in my life.
Its a privilege to be the one that gets to just watch and jot it down, she says.
Her latest book, Vacationing In My Driveway, brings together 52 true stories observing the hidden and clear characteristics of natures four seasons.
Beginning in January and ending in December, readers are taken on a year-long journey into Marottas insights and observations of our world.
This sense of tranquility and acceptance within her writings is an aspect of Marottas own beliefs.
We think that we drive our lives and make these choices, but so much that happens to us simply befalls us, like a sudden illness or some tragic loss, she says.
I think that you can make your peace with almost any situation if you can just sit back a little bit and try to stop resisting it.
Marotta recalls her own experience of overcoming lifes little curve balls when her 80-year-old mother died suddenly at her own birthday party.
She says it was this event that prompted her to write her first book, I Thought He Was A Speed Bump.
She died and I missed her, she says.
Marotta says that several of the stories in the first book include her mother.
She told great stories and I think that I was trying to conjure her up in a way (by writing the book).
The close relationship Marotta had with her mother is an example of the importance of family for the former Somerville High School English teacher who has been writing for 23 years.
With the help of her husband of 32 years, David, she holds a family dinner weekly at their home.
We have Wednesday night dinner and they all come, Marotta says.
And by all of them Marotta means her own children, Carrie, 25, and Annie, 23, who both live in Somerville, and Michael, 18, along with the kids from A Better Chance - a program that takes kids out of the inner city and provides them with access to other educational opportunities.
The Marottas have been a host family for several kids.
We had five or six kids that we have helped bring to adulthood, Marotta says.
Theyre still our kids, she says.
Terry Marotta will be at the Borders in Braintree for a reading at 2 p.m. on June 15.
A mini Vacation
Here is an excerpt from Terry Marottas new book, "Vacationing In My Driveway." This is from the short story, "Not a Bowl of Berries for Terry and the Pirate."
I took an airplane flight during which, like many a passenger, I had occasion to visit the bathroom. Only first I couldnt LOCK its little door, and banged and wrestled with it loudly. Then, minutes later, I couldnt UNlock it. Between the one effort and the other, I had its rigid vinyl walls a-shakin and a-tremblin like a sinner facin Judgment; and when I burst forth at last, the folks in the last few rows gave me a round of applause.
But returning to my seat, I felt strangely cheerful, and settled in beside the pony-tailed man who for the last two hours had been poring over a hockey magazine.
"Um, so do you PLAY hockey?" I made bold to ask.
"Semi-pro, baby! Eleven years!" he said with a big smile.
"Yikes, howre your teeth? Hows your, uh, mouth?"
"150 stitches and two caps!" he shouted gaily. "Only I dont bother with the caps much." And he smiled even wider, showing me a mouth like my pirates back home.
Its the smile I keep on remembering, for the lesson it gave me: namely, whatever droppings the heavens choose to rain down on you, the choice of how you react to them is still yours to make.
Franceen Shaughnessy may be reached at firstname.lastname@example.org.
Copyright 2002 The Patriot Ledger
Transmitted Saturday, June 08, 2002
Terry Marotta will be at the Borders at Braintree for a reading at 2pm on June 15th.
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